Seriously. I've had it with toys. They have taken over my house, and I think we do a pretty good job on inventory control. So on Thursday, after stepping on my 5th airplane of the morning, I declared that I had "had it."
All toys were to be locked into the closets. Yes, all. I cleaned up EVERY toy in the house, upstairs, downstairs, under beds, dressers, hiding in the sofa. I got them ALL. And they all went into their proper bins with lids on and stacked into the closet. Even the "mish mash" bucket that holds the random toys. My intention was to lock the closet with a child lock, but our closets handles are too wide spread, so I couldn't. So, I, the queen of the house, proclaimed a new rule. The boys (all 3 at once) may have out ONE toy or "set" at a time. When they are done, it must be completely cleaned up and put away before asking permission to get out another toy or set. (yes, they must ask, and yes, I occasionally say no)
I thought I would hear weeping and whaling and gnashing of teeth. But instead, I heard "Thanks for cleaning it up mom, there is so much room to run now!" from Aidan. From Ethan on a separate occasion, "Mom, thanks for cleaning up my toys, they were a mess."
No complaining. No fighting about it. No problems at all. In fact, my boys have discovered that it's actually fun to play together again. Go outside. Practice the piano. And, it's working! They are cleaning them up no problem and putting them away. The way it's supposed to be! Little did I know all I had to do was completely eradicate the toys from the house. The best part is, they play together! It's been fun to watch them work togteher more these last few days. . . I hope it continues!!!